From Old English hlysnan , ask , " pay attention " to pay attention to a sound in the material .
You can hear what's going on and you want to be able to listen to you .
Phone (duh!) and asked : conversation requires two things .
Listening..?
Both of you are saying and how you can get ready at the same time ,
what are you going to say next ...?
You realize it or not , whether you have others to do the right thing . It says only one thing you do not want to think too hard about what to say next is going to be a problem .
In many ways , the conversation at the time walking in the conversation , there is a step ,
one at a time you 're thinking . When you are talking with someone ,
other thoughts in your mind clear and strict attention to what they're saying .
Nodding your head , and " Hmm Hmm " every once in a while to show you ,
" I see, " or , that , the eye contact . That in practice empathetic,
then reword see if they accept your offers to play again ,
" If I understand your point , I see" . If these training techniques and give a
good conversation is to take place ..
It also pays to be careful during the conversation .
For example , think about the topic being discussed .
It will be interesting to all concerned ? In fact, if you think about it ,
a nuclear engineer , a Wall Street stock wax core physics and nuclear reactor that about ?
Someone who is a stay at home father children after school child to talk endlessly about the pros and cons ? What do you put on the table for discussion topic always consider the other person 's interests .
Finally , about anything : a point to ensure that it can not wait for you to put your two cents ,
but it is the very fine line .
It is right to interfere in the middle of a sentence at the same time when
you want to say something that can not wait to be honest . After that, or some similar apology
" I'm sorry to interrupt, " begins .
They will know the comfort of a good conversationalist or being offensive ,
or it should be clear that , their friendship , thinking person or a small idea ,
what is the difference between long- winded you show others how they boor .
Conversation DOS and Don't s
Listen first .
Next think . The last to speak .